By raising your hand, how many of you gave up chocolates this year in your resolutions? Now how many of you chose this year to be the year that redefines your status as a red-hot bitch? Not many of you, I’m sure, thanks in part to the acceptable lie that being irresistible is a phenomenon relegated to the slim, tall, smart, and a host of other misconceptions that society is impressing us with these days. We have all seen them and even know some women who seem equipped with the right package of what it means to be a perfect woman, but they are alone and not from lack of effort. They are simply not irresistible enough for the opposite sex. The good news is, you don’t have to be Gisele to win this game. All you need to know is that it is a game and there are rules. Do you want to be an irresistible woman? Keep reading.
1. Femininity is great!
Like it or not, there are certain traits that define us as women and cannot be replaced. Gone are the days when women were banished to the kitchen to sweat over a hot stove and other household chores. That did not make them feminine then and neither do expensive clothes and shoes in this era. As women, we are softer and more curvy and as much as it is okay to be one of the guys and know how to do everything under heaven, let’s not forget our basic female roles. We are feminine! Once in a while, allow the man in your life to flaunt his macho side. Men like to be needed, so let them be and, in turn, you will prove to be an irresistible woman to them.
2. Know your enemy
And they are many enemies of being an irresistible woman. Depending on your true intentions of wanting to become irresistible, that is, if you want someone in particular to look at you twice, well, find out what they are looking for in a woman, master it, and go for it! If it’s an adventurous spirit, a few skydiving lessons won’t hurt. Men are visual creatures, so dress well and spare no expense. They also need intellectual partners, so work on the intelligence of your books, as well as your emotional quotient. Not only will you win over the one you are looking for, but you will be amazed at how much you will come to like it.
3. Trust is key
Do you know who you are and absolutely love who you are? If you can say yes, that is confidence and it is attractive. Do not dominate others, but accept your good and not so good parts and feel comfortable in your own skin. What prevents you from being happy to be yourself? There is something completely irresistible about being happy with who you are and appearing apart, you will become an involuntary magnet just because you are not afraid to embrace who you were born to be.
4. Flaunt What You Have
This is a key truth that every woman seeking to be irresistible should work on. We all have one talent or another or, in the case of our bodies, one particular appendage that we are most proud of. So why not brag about it? If you have great legs, show it to the world. If you are a genius in the kitchen, don’t be afraid to honk. Not only does it increase your self-confidence, but it will also attract some admiration from the opposite sex. But don’t overdo it! You are not his mother!
5. Know your power
And yes, we have power. And we can use it wherever we want, from the bedroom to the boardroom. You just have to choose. You have the God-given right to make the decisions in your body, your mind, and your soul. So, what are you waiting for?
Becoming an irresistible woman requires a commitment to yourself so that you can be all that you were created to be.