In the game of sexual attraction, what you say is not as important as what your body says. In fact, if you’re that good at silent speech, you can say a lot more with your body than words can do for you.

This is how you do it.

1. Eye contact triangulation

First you need to draw attention to yourself. That can be accomplished by fiddling with your neck, necklace, or earring, or dusting off your sleeve or shoulder, just to name a few. After you get their attention, hold their gaze for about 3 seconds, break eye contact down to get their nose, lips, and chin.

Triangulated eye contact communicates a desire to get to know the other person more intimately (and I’m not talking about “sexual” people!). Keep in mind that while men generally aren’t bothered by prolonged eye contact with a strange woman (in fact, they crave it, especially if she’s stunningly beautiful), women, on the other hand, tend to get quite irritated by stares. long periods of unknown men (even large ones). those who look).

Also beware of cultural differences.

2. Flash of eyebrows

Eye contact with a flash of eyebrows followed by a smile has an even more powerful effect.

Make eye contact, hold their gaze for about 3 seconds, and break eye contact down (very briefly). When you look up again, take note of the chin, lips, nose, and up to the eyes. Add the eyebrow flare and smile.

The message you want to send is “I was just being polite at first… but now that I’ve had a good look at it… OH-WOW!”

Shy people can do this much better than the more aggressive type because subtlety and modesty come naturally to shy men and women.

3. Eye-catching

Once you have their attention and the conversation is flowing, use your fingers to draw attention to their eyes and keep their gaze focused on you, and only you. This is especially important when the exchange takes place in cramped or crowded conditions.

Lightly touch your nose or gently rub your cheek making sure your index finger touches the area around the outer corner of your eye; your other fingers pointing when touching the mouth area. This says, “Look, we’re having a conversation here.” To create maximum rapport, be sure to maintain eye contact when the other person is talking, then when their gaze starts to wander, bring it back by directing your eyes to their eye and mouth area.

Another thing you can do is hold your face with both hands with your chin resting on your palms and your elbows on the table. Gently rub the area around the outer corners of both eyes with your index or middle finger; the other fingers are slightly extended in a semicircle around your face. This gives the illusion of a whisper or secret being shared. Very intimate!

And if you wear glasses, take them off slowly, rub your eyes very briefly, and put them back on. But please make sure it’s not so obvious. And don’t get red-eyed because the apple of your eye has its attention drawn to the guy or girl across the room. You have to make the conversation interesting too, not just desperately try to mechanically meet her gaze.

4. Sideways glance

This is best accomplished when you walk away from or sit with your back to the person you want to be attracted to. Look slowly behind you with your eyelids partly closed, but look down the moment you notice. This fall of gauze must be very brief. Look up triangulating your eye contact starting at the chin, lips, nose and working up to the eyes. Smile.

Moistening your lips while looking down increases sexual tension.

For women, the sidelong glance combined with a toss of hair and parted lips can be very powerful. For men this with the brow flash is devastating! But you do need a bit of masculine confidence not to look creepy.

5. The crossed leg (only women)

Intertwined legs draw attention to body balance and give the impression of high muscle tone. Crossing and uncrossing your legs while an interested man is looking at you is a strong sign of attraction, especially when you simultaneously maintain eye contact, tilt your head to the side, and caress or rub a knee.

The problem here is that the type of men you are most likely to attract with this move are horny men, yes, the hit and run type! So unless you really know the guy and have checked his stats, keep your feet on the ground and together.

And if you’re in a relationship or even married, these body language moves can do wonders for your sexual chemistry. And when combined with prolonged eye contact and stroking a cylindrical object such as the stem of a wine glass, a straw, a pen, a pencil or a cigarette… Aiyaiyaiyiayai! Houston, we have a problem”.

6. The Cowboy Hook (men only)

This “I’m all man!” Dominant posture requires more masculine confidence to achieve. He works with his thumbs tucked into the belt and the other fingers resting on the sides of the thighs framing the groin area (did I mention this requires more masculine confidence?).

You can also achieve the same effect (or close) by leaning against a door frame or wall with one hand, the other hand in your pocket, thumb sticking out and pointing you-know-where.

Any hand gesture that draws attention to the groin area shows great sexual and social confidence. A lot depends on whether the woman in question approves of a caveman’s approach.

Will any of these communication gestures with the eyes and the body give you the man or woman of your dreams?

Not necessarily. Personally, I don’t think the mechanical gestures of body language, as simple and flawless as they are, can do anything for you other than boost your confidence and get the sexual energy flowing in your body. At the end of the day, it’s the confidence vibes coming from you that initiate sexual attraction. Body language can only jump-start the already existing sexual chemistry. If you can use body language to cause a chain reaction, you’re halfway there!

And just as it takes effort and practice to master any language, it takes practice to master body language. You can practice in front of a mirror or with the help of a supportive friend. You will find that as you become more fluent in your flirting and sexually attractive body language, your self-confidence as a sexually attractive man or woman also increases.

Don’t take yourself too seriously. The goal is not to become an expert in body language, but to be sexually confident with the opposite sex. So have fun with your sexual self. It’s yours to enjoy!

You can also use this knowledge to judge if someone is flirting with you, interested in you, and attracted to you. You can also use this knowledge to tell if someone is flirting with you, interested in you, and attracted to you. Keep in mind that body language is not an exact science.

For graphic illustrations of these powerful flirtation and sexual attraction body language signals, click here and watch your flirtation and sexual confidence hit the roof.