Perhaps your shy and quiet personality has led you to miss out on romantic opportunities in the past? Fortunately, being quiet can also be described as mysterious and attractive (rather than boring and hard to get along with). So here are 3 steps you can use to project a different image so that people around you, especially men, find you more and more sexy and attractive…
Step 1. You have to act, dress and play the part.
Projecting the image of being mysterious and seductive has as much to do with clothing as it does with the need to speak less and remain silent. Although fashion continues to change, certain clothing basics will never go out of date. If you don’t know what I mean, rent some classic movies and see how their dress is still considered attractive by modern standards. Try modeling after the way they dress instead of just blindly chasing fashion. A good tip to remember is to show only one sexy area of your body at a time. That means if you choose to reveal any cleavage today, be sure to pair it with a longer skirt or pants (something that covers your thighs at least). If you opt for a shorter bottom, wear a top with more hidden sleeves. Above all, be strict with yourself about the way your body looks so you can comfortably wear tighter clothing. Experiment with contour-enhancing underwear to make your clothes look more flattering. Since men are extremely visual creatures, dressing more sexy and seductive will help their cause more than half.
Step 2. Even if you are quiet, you still need to stay positive.
Being mysterious and attractive doesn’t mean you have the right to sulk, frown, or pout. Being quietly pleasant with a serene smile on your face is very attractive. Since inner peace and happiness is what you seek, you need to find a place of quiet contentment within yourself. If you don’t feel it deep in your heart, the people around you will know that you are faking it, which will leave a bitter taste in their mouth. So spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical peace are qualities you can work on to improve the way you feel about life and about yourself. Spending time with a happy, calm woman is a relief to many men who have dated women who just can’t seem to wait to start talking…and never seem to stop! After a long day at work, sometimes all a man needs is peace and quiet. Not someone who needs him to listen to her rant about her day and herself. You have the power to affect the way a man feels when you feel at peace with yourself.
Step 3. Maintain eye contact and be politely interested in what your partner is talking about.
Maintaining eye contact with someone is a sure way to communicate that you feel confident in yourself. Even if you’re not used to staring into someone’s eyes when they speak, you should learn to do so. The first few times you may have to force yourself to stare and not look away. You may feel self-conscious, but you should do it both for your sake and for the sake of the person you’re spending time with. Being looked into the eyes while speaking makes a person feel valued and recognized. A special feeling for many men, especially when it comes to a woman they find attractive. If you can maintain eye contact with the man she is conversing with, you can effectively communicate her mood and personality without speaking. For example, you can nod, smile, and laugh when you agree with what he says, or raise your eyebrows when he says something unusual or interesting. This way, he will find you mysterious and seductive even if you keep quiet and don’t speak. If you don’t know how to use your voice, at least learn to use the rest of your body to communicate what you’re thinking and feeling to someone else! Above all, don’t be afraid to experiment and make mistakes. Life is so much more fun when you keep learning new things and can laugh at yourself while practicing how to make your calm personality more mysterious and attractive.
