The appeal of an open sexual relationship is strong. Most couples are interested in the swinger lifestyle and share that interest by watching videos together or sharing intimate fantasies. Little by little, his interest grows. Eventually, some couples will decide to take the step: to become swingers.

Wife swapping with friends should be carefully considered. It may seem like the best possible solution to bring your fantasy to life. It’s hard? Or is it a potential minefield? And, if so, is there a better solution?

The motivation for exchanging wives with friends is usually “familiarity” and “accessibility.” You may not want to swing with strangers. You may be more comfortable with the people you know. You may also have long had fantasies about seeing your spouse having sex with his friends. And of course, friends are easily accessible – a simple phone call or a car trip.

But again, is it a good idea? I think you can already guess that “no” is certainly not the best of ideas. I will explain why.

If the swing experience goes wrong in any way (maybe someone gets jealous, maybe someone can’t act), you may lose friendships. Not only that, but it may not be possible to avoid these people (causing you to relive and relive the problem every time you see them).

Another problem is your emotional connection with your friends. The negative feelings of jealousy that can sometimes arise in a swing session will intensify if you are emotionally connected to someone.

Lastly, friendships don’t always last forever. Think about it. What if you fight with your friends? What if they tell everyone you know about your wife swap with friends?

Almost everyone agrees when explaining these facts: never swing with someone you know. The solution is obviously to find single men or women or couples who are totally strangers. Get to know them first on the Internet and then take the leap!