The best female masturbation ideas are usually the most creative. So if you’re wondering what other women do behind closed doors and how they get aroused, here are some female self-arousal tips that might inspire you to try something new.

grinding in a chair

Female arousal can even be as easy as sitting on the edge of a chair or in the corner of the sofa where you can really create a great angle to stimulate your clitoris. Just sit on the edge and start rocking back and forth. Move your hips so you feel connected to that magic point and go on and on. This is also a great hands-free position to let you stimulate your breasts, or even better if you’re in your commuter looking at sexual images that will help further arouse you.

using a pillow

A pillow is a great tool for female self-masturbation because as you get more aroused, it gives your legs something to grab onto, which puts more wonderful pressure on your feminine spot. Wear it on your side for slow rubbing, ride it like you’re in a cowgirl position, or place it between your legs while lying on your stomach. The friction caused between your underwear and the pillow will bring a beautiful warm tingling glow to your vagina and with persistence and a few naughty thoughts it can lead to a wonderful orgasm.

use a shower head

One of the best ideas for female masturbation is to use it as a detachable shower head. It’s the perfect arousal tool, especially if you have different pressure settings. Before putting it between your legs, use it to relax, calm down and almost seduce yourself. Hold the shower head in one hand and hold it to your forehead so the warm water fills your hair and then soaks your back. Then hold it at the base of your skull so that the water pushes into the back of your head, then slowly rub and massage this area. Trace the shower head along your collarbones and down your chest, around your belly to your buttocks. Let the warm water run down your cheeks and then rub it down your backside before slowly moving it up between your legs. Start with a slow pressure setting and just enjoy the sensation of the water relaxing you in this area. If you have a ledge in the shower, raise your leg and as the intensity increases, increase the water pressure.

female masturbating toys

Sex toys are always wonderfully fun, but they don’t necessarily have to come from a store. Many women enjoy various household items that you may not have considered. From hairbrushes that act as dildos, electric toothbrushes that act as vibrators, to fine-tooth combs or even mascara wands that are used to stimulate the clitoris. With a little imagination, there are endless varieties of different kitchen utensils or small plastic bottles that you can use to help with stimulation.

Look to you

One of the most indulgent female masturbation ideas is looking at yourself in the mirror. Many women find this to be an incredible turn-on and it’s perfect for really turning you on. Use it to seduce yourself by performing a sexy strip dance or watching him slowly tease her nipples to arouse her in sexy lingerie. It can also be very hot looking at sex toys, or moving your fingers in and out, and even hotter if you can see yourself having an orgasm. Try it!

add stimulants

Adding sexual stimulators can also be an incredible turn on and lead to some very powerful orgasms. Try using a warming lubricant to increase sexual pleasure and get a tingling sensation between your legs and don’t forget your nipples. Self pleasure for women is always better when you turn both the top and bottom halves on. Rub ice cubes on your nipples to heighten the pleasure, or even try surrounding them with lipstick, a sensation similar to your lover’s luscious lips.

Dial ‘O’ for orgasm

Using your mobile phone for stimulation is one of the best female masturbation ideas, especially if you are not in a position to buy a sex toy. Pull it down into your pants and hold it against your clit, or for the more adventurous, you can even insert it inside yourself, then enjoy calling you over and over again!

Combine all of the above with fantasy

All of these female masturbation ideas will work even better when you add the thrill of fantasy into the mix. Look at sexy images, watch porn for women or just imagine that you are having sex with someone who will really turn you on. Just connect your mind with your body and your hand with your clit!